Signs Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You

5 Signs Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You

1.She pays more attention to her phone than you.

If you inevitably spend every dinner glaring at her as she pivots between various social networks and replies to every text message that springs up, don't be too quick to write her behavior off as a sign of the times.

Sure, we're all guilty of being so overly engrossed in our digital lives that we neglect the present moment. But if she makes a continual habit of talking to her Twitter followers more than you during dinner dates, it may point to her lack of investment in the relationship, not just her fleeting attention span. We don't want to say she might be spending your night together making plans with someone else, but stranger things have happened.

2.She's less interested in sex.

Every couple has sex routines. Maybe three times a week is your norm; maybe you get it in every night. But if your norm inexplicably changes, and you find you're battling a new excuse every night, you may want to investigate what lies at the root of the issue. Is she really too tired (every damn night)? Has your sex life just gotten that boring? Or, is she simply disinterested in humping you...because she's getting it elsewhere?

We're not saying you should draw wild conclusions from a single "not tonight," but be aware of what normal looks like so you know when your sex schedule diverges from it, and take the time to discuss what the real issue is.

3.She flirts with other people in front of you.

This points to larger issues of being attention-starved, having an insatiable ego, and otherwise being insecure. But more notably, if she's comfortable batting her eyes at other people in front of you, what is she doing when you're not there?

4.Her social calendar is suddenly bursting at the seams.

Saturdays used to be your day. Nothing was said, no plans were made; it was just assumed that you'd be spending time together. But lately, it seems something more important to her comes up each week. Your weekly dates are no longer set in stone, and everything and everyone else takes precedent.

If you see your quality time slowly dwindling away, it absolutely points to her waning interest in the relationship, and it could mean she has transferred her affections elsewhere, or is at least entertaining the thought.

Independence is healthy, but a new-found focus on partying with her friends could mean she's putting herself out there again and is seriously considering pulling the plug on your love

5.She falls off the radar for large gaps of time.

So, she disappeared for five hours for the third time in a week and blamed it on falling asleep, and you actually believed her? That's cute. We guess what they say is true—love is actually blind.

We hate to be the ones to pry those stubborn eyelids open, but if your girl goes M.I.A. for days at a time, you need to stop making excuses and start getting answers.